Lifestyle

How to Survive Mother’s Day With a Toxic Mom

Ah, Mother’s Day. Much like other holidays dedicated to people close to us, this one has a complicated set of nuances attached to those who have equally complicated relationships with their maternal figures. And because there are cultural norms and religious iterations of hadiths like “Your Heaven lies under the feet of your mother,” (Al-Nasa’i) the…

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This Woman Has Found the Answer to Unifying Muslims

Inclusion: The action or state of including or of being included within a group or structure. So now that we understand what inclusion means, let’s get to the nitty-gritty and talk about the real problem – exclusion. You know those moments where you’re like, “Ummm, no. Not in 2016?!?” Yeah. You know the ones. Especially…

Faith

We are Not Exempt from Taboo Topics Like Molestation

I recently wrote a personal and emotional piece on being sexually abused by an imam when I was a child. I was nervous when it was published and was afraid there would be negative reaction from readers. However, it was such a relief to receive an enormous amount of support, encouragement and love. I also…

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Study Finds Muslims Think Creeping Sharia a Turn Off

Newsflash: Muslims are actually not the religious group most likely to desire replacing the Constitution with their scripture.  At least, that’s according to a new poll released in March 2016, by The Institute for Social Policy and Understanding, a nonpartisan think-tank (who knew those still existed?). Aptly titled “The American Muslim Poll,” the study goes…

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A Woman’s Virginity Is Between Her and God

Today, hundreds of Indonesian women are forced to have virginity tests done in order to join the police force. Iraqi women face court ordered virginity tests after allegations from husbands that they are not virgins after the first day of marriage. Women all across the globe are expected to bleed on their wedding nights as…

Issues

#OurThreeBrothers: Do You See Us Black Muslims Now?

On Wednesday night, the bodies of three young Muslim men were found dead in an Indiana home. The victims were Mohamedtaha Omar, 23, Adam Kamel Mekki, 20, and Muhannad Adam Tairab, 17. They were found with multiple bullet wounds in what police reported as an execution-style shooting. This triple homicide occurred five days ago and…

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Why Is No One Talking About #OurThreeBrothers?

News emerged early Friday of three young Muslim men brutally killed in Fort Wayne, Indiana. The bodies of Mohamedtaha Omar, 23, Adam Mekki, 20, and Muhannad Tairab, 17, were found on Wednesday in an abandoned home, known locally as a hangout spot for young adults. Police officers were responding to “unknown problem” when they found…

Identity

We Don’t Need Pig Blood-Coated Bullets to Feel Unwelcome at Home

Presidential-hopeful and general-popularizer of bigotry Donald Trump was at it again Friday. Promoting torture and the violation of human rights was on the agenda, as per usual, he again claimed that waterboarding was only “minimal, minimal, minimal torture,” and not nearly enough for use against suspected terrorists. But then the rally somehow managed to become…