Qandeel Baloch was a Pakistani celebrity who rose to fame through publicizing brazenly insolent and concerningly political comments. She was highly notorious for her countless erotic and flagrant photos she had uploaded on her social media sites. Almost a week ago, she was strangled by her brother, Waseem Baloch, in a so-called “honor killing.” After…
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Are Western Muslims Suffering From PTSD?
I sometimes worry that my entire generation of young Western Muslims suffer from PTSD — and I honestly do not take that affliction lightly. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder develops in a person after they’ve experienced a traumatic situation. It’s most commonly associated with soldiers returning home from long and dangerous tours abroad, but can also occur…
En Garde! Fencing Has a New Face: Muslim Girls
Muslim women are rarely associated with sports of any kind, because many presume that our religion dictates that we must be docile and obedient. Times are changing, though, and the leaders of Maslaha, a London based organization, are challenging those stereotypes with a new initiative called Muslim Girls Fence. The initiative is part of the…
This is What It’s Like Being Visibly Muslim on NYC Transit
The work day just ended, and it’s rush hour. There are two seats open to my right, and the lady next to me has a pencil pointed upward. Also, the train is packed. Some creep is trying to slyly take a picture of me. I put my head down for two reasons: I was worried…
Muslim Women Are More Than What We Wear or Don’t Wear
I have a few moments I cherish daily, and one of them is placing my headscarf on my head as I control the essence of my beauty. During my day, the sight of beauty around me oscillates as different hues become the forecast of the hour where I become appreciative – obsessed really, with the…
5 Yummy Mocktail Recipes To Try
No alcohol? No problem! Here are some refreshing mocktails that will be perfect to enjoy for iftar or on Eid day! You can add a cute umbrella, or drink it out of a cool straw to make it look cute. Bottoms up, you deserve it, boo. VIRGIN MOJITO 5mint leaves 1teaspoon raw sugar 1…
Depression Doesn’t Just “Go Away,” Even During Ramadan
It is 6pm, and the platform is unbearably hot. The train just arrived, but it’s useless to even try to get on. Post-work rush hour in Grand Central is no joke. I have no energy to fight the edgy commuters, so I stand back and watch them battle to squeeze themselves in the door, squishing…
5 Self Care Tips for Ramadan & Beyond
During the holy month of Ramadan, everyone is busy trying to re-adjust their hectic schedules, meal prepping, and dividing the hours in each day carefully and meaningfully. It gets so hectic, and we want to do so much that it’s often easy to forget to take care of ourselves. During Ramadan–and any other time–it’s important…
Are We Discouraging Our Children From Attending the Masjid?
Every Ramadan, I go to the first taraweeh prayer in the masjid with full force excitement. It’s the time of year where you feel that sense of community in the Ummah again. Smiling faces surround you as you reunite with friends you haven’t seen in a while, reminding you of what a special place the…
Why Are We Hiding Our Periods During Ramadan?
We’ve all been there, ladies. Don’t deny it. Who hasn’t taken a surreptitious look around before scoffing a bite of [insert chosen food here] while on your period in Ramadan? Lately, I’ve been wondering why on earth we do this…why are we hiding? Clearly it’s because of the many social and medical benefits of pretending…
Angelina Jolie Spoke to a Mixed Audience at a Masjid, But Our Sisters Are Still Largely Voiceless
The All Dulles area Muslim Society Center held an event on June 20, 2016 to mark World Refugee Day. John Kerry and Angelina Jolie were guests on this occasion. Jolie spoke to an enthusiastic audience of ADAMS community members. Yes, she spoke to a mixed audience of men and women. And no, there were no…
Muslim Girl Hit the White House Summit on Women
This past week, Muslim Girl attended the White House Summit on Women. It was monumental for me, for more reasons than one. I can’t explain what it was like to be standing face to face with my childhood hero. It seems watered down and over used to say speechless, or that I had chills, or…
6 Ways to Help Kids Cope With Tragedies
The terrible tragedy that occurred in Orlando, FL this past week has emotions running high for all Muslims across the globe. This event may or may not have been related to the gunman’s religious beliefs, but either way, all Muslims will be facing the consequences to one man’s actions. Our children and young people are being…
Do Women’s Choices Impact the Family Finances?
Pakistan American journalist, attorney, and DAWN staff columnist Rafia Zakaria often has the answers for me when I’m unsettled by the questions floating around in my head. At 24, I’m watching the women in my peer group make incredible decisions in their lives and careers – choices of graduate school, artistic fellowships abroad, philanthropy projects,…
The Toll of Muslim Masculinity: How It Is Pondered, Practiced, Perpetuated – and Poisonous
There is a stand. Maybe it’s marked by a booming black mic, a large maple podium, some tape on the carpet, an etch in the dirt. Perhaps it’s nestled under chandelier tears, framed Arabic verse, low sullen ceilings, or brisk open breeze. There is a voice. Maybe it’s English, Arabic, a combination, or none of…
