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This Is What It Means to Be a Child of Immigrants

Written by Neghena Hamidi. — Some nights my father would drive home and talk about the Soviet invasion in Afghanistan — a war that displaced 6.3 million Afghans to neighboring countries such as Pakistan and Iran. He would talk about his service in the fire department in Kabul, and how some nights he would find…

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Can Muslims Be Strong Allies of the LGBTQ Community?

Written by Sumaira Mian. — Note: This issue extends outside of the Muslim community — but is focused specifically on Muslims in this article to bring forward an inter-community issue to light. Can Muslims be an ally to the LGBTQ community? When posing this question, I’m usually met with three types of responses from Muslims: The first are…

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We Need to Stop Calling Little Girls “Aroosa”

Written by Layla Elabed Disclaimer: While this may not be true for all individuals and families, this was my experience and the experience of many young women I have talked to. What happens when we call our daughters “aroosas”? “Aroosa” translates to bride in Arabic, but is often used has a term of endearment towards little…

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I Was Raped a Month After Reciting My Marriage Rites

It has taken me more than one year to compose this post. Graduating from a good university with a B.A. in Biology and on the Pre-Health track is a moment that I have not wholly internalized. Graduating from the institution that provided me a home, a family, stirs and swells my stomach with desperate frustration. I have…

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Islam Does Not Allow You to Abuse Your Children

“God must be punishing me for a past sin, by giving me a child like you.” “Shut up! I’m your father, you loser.” “Talk to me like that again, and I’ll beat you to a pulp.” “Jannah (Paradise) lies under the feet of your mother. Until I forgive you, you’re going to Hell.” These are…

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My Mom is Racist

The doorbell rings. It’s late in the afternoon and my mother is washing the dishes while the rhythmic sound of our doorbell echoes. She tenses a bit. I ask her, “Mami, why don’t you see who it is?” I’m confused. Why won’t she get the door? “Don’t open it. It’s a Black man. He looks scary.” She…

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Is Representation Really That Important?

Written by Areej Khan   In the sixth grade, when asked to share what our favorite book was in order to give the rest of the class reading suggestions, I proudly announced to the whole class the title: “Does My Head Look Big In This?” by Randa Abdel-Fattah. Our school librarian just stood there and…

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MUSAHI DISTRICT, Afghanistan -- An Afghan villager holds prayer beads at a shura Jan. 24. The shura was held between Afghan villagers and Turkish military leadership about district issues and the future of Afghan youth, and, a volelyball game between Turkish Soldiers and Afghan youth was held afterward. ( ISAF Joint Command photo by U.S. Air Force Staff Sgt. Logan Tuttle )

God Is the Ultimate Authority on Islam, Not Scholars

Prayer is the most important conversation of your day. Take it to God before you take it to anyone else.  –Unknown Regardless of our level of belief in God or ourselves, we all have struggles at one time or another. Things are not going our way or we are not sure about a major decision;…