Umm Ayman: Mother After the Prophet’s Mother

A luminous figure in this series who was a companion is Barakah (RAA) also known as Umm Ayman.  Umm Ayman was Abyssinian and a servant of Abdullah bin Abdil Muttalib, the father of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). When Aminah, the mother of the Prophet died, Umm Ayman took over as primary care-giver of the Prophet.  Umm Ayman was later emancipated at the time of the marriage of the Prophet to Sayyidah Khadijah bint Khuwaylid.

Umm Ayman was one of the early adherents of Islam in Makkah and was one of those who faced persecution from Quraysh.  She was among those who migrated from Makkah to Al-Madinah.

Umm Ayman’s first marriage was to Ubayd bin Zayd (RAA) who was from Bani Khazraj, a prominent tribe in the Hijaz.  According to ibn Kathir in Al-Bidayah wa An-Nihayah and others, Ubayd himself was black in color or Al-Habashi though his lineage was from Bani Khazraj, a prominent Arab tribe in the Hijaz.  Umm Ayman and Ubayd bore a son named Ayman (RAA) who was also black. Ubayd was martyred at Ghazwah Khaybar, and Ayman was martyred at Ghazwah Hunayn.  Umm Ayman participated in Ghazwah Uhud and Ghazwah Khaybar.

After Ubayd’s martyrdom, it’s reported by ibn Sa’ad in At-Tabaqat Al-Kubra that the Prophet said to the companions that if anyone wanted to marry a lady from the People of Paradise then marry Umm Ayman.  Zayd bin Harithah (RAA), the man who the Prophet emancipated and raised like a son, was then married to Umm Ayman.  Though Zayd was Arab and there are some conflicting descriptions about his physical appearance, Tanwir Al-Ghabash min Fadl Al-Sudan wa Al-Habash by ibn Al-Jawzi and others states that Zayd was short with a flat nose and had dark skin.

Umm Ayman had a particularly close relationship to Ahl al-Bayt, the Household of the Prophet.  She shared intimate moments with Ahl al-Bayt such as being present at the marriage that the Prophet conducted between his daughter Sayyidah Fatimah (SA) and Imam Ali (KW).  At the time of the passing of the Prophet, she grieved alongside Ahl al-Bayt.

There are conflicting narrations about Umm Ayman’s passing.

This post is republished from Dawud Walid, a leading voice for Muslims and Islam in Michigan, as part of his series on Muslims of Black History Month. We will be regularly featuring parts of his series on