Lifestyle

5 Tips on How to Deal With Street Marriage Proposals

It’s tough out there for a Muslim Girl. Islamophobes, anti-hijab feminists, racists, misogynists, and murderous clowns to name a few of the big bad wolves we encounter in our daily lives. Then there’s that puzzling species of men who offer marriage proposals in public places. More often than not, these proposals will come after an…

Issues

This UK Review Misses the Mark on British Muslims & Social Integration

So, the independent review, commissioned by former British Prime Minister David Cameron and conducted by Dame Louise Casey, dropped yesterday and, like a new DJ Khaled album, it has caused a stir – particularly amongst Muslims. The review has generated discussion and debate on social integration in the U.K. and how significantly isolated some communities…

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Men Are Now Using Marriage Sites for Blackmail & Revenge Porn

There are many success stories of people finding their partners via matrimonial websites, social media etc., but with any unexplored territory, there are dangers awaiting. In a world where instant communication, and the sharing of information is easier than it has ever been, there appears to be a sinister development in the ways technology is…

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10 Things I Learned While Watching the US Presidential Debate as a Brit

1. Not fully comprehending sexual assault is a universal problem.  Trump’s deeply offensive comments that surfaced earlier this week, where he mentions that women should be grabbed by their p*ssies, have caused the uproar many of his previous comments about ethnic minorities, Islam, war veterans etc. should have had. His sorry-not-sorry statement afterwards demonstrates how sexual assault is still…

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Why Are We Still Waiting for Plus Size Hijabi Fashionistas?

There’s no other way to say this — Dina Tokio/Torkia is a don. That is, if The Godfather told the story of hijabi fashion, she would be Marlon Brando, sitting and stroking Choji, while hopeful hijabis flock to her, tentatively asking for favors. This, I’m sure, is as far as the similarities go but still, of…

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Muslim Women and the F-Word — Feminism

At this point I don’t think there is a person on the planet that has not heard of the “Brexit” palava of June 2016 that got us Brits freaking out about our future. It left a lot of us scratching our heads in disbelief that more than half of our country voted against something that…

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Spending Eid Away From Your Child? The Guilt Is Real

Let me start out with a disclaimer. I love going away with my 4-year-old son. He’s great fun, not much bother, and carries a big chunk of my heart around with him. A few months ago, we went on an awesome family adventure into the Sumatran jungle to see orangutans. Despite having a wonderful time,…